March 2010 Contentment

In a society that constantly tells us we need bigger, faster, and better, finding contentment can be a struggle for all of us. Teaching kids to be content, then, is a challenge, but an important one to tackle.

The first key is modeling contentment to your kids. If you're not content with life's circumstances, they will quickly pick up these cues and follow your lead. Another important value to instill is the difference between a want, a desire, and a demand. Helping your child understand the degrees of strength implied in each of these aspirations is a good starting place when teaching contentment. When children can distinguish the difference, you will be able to point out the difference and correct their tone and attitude when demands are made.

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